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		<title>The woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 06:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wanted to write a text about this woman who is the mainstay of the house because she is not always considered to her right value. I will not talk about this woman who organizes tuperware meetings to fill her life and who spends her time wallowed on the sofa watching soap-operas such as &#8220;the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=fter.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3196454&amp;post=4&amp;subd=fter&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;margin:5px;" src="http://fter.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/femme.jpg?w=130&#038;h=83" alt="" width="130" height="83" />I wanted to write a text about this woman who is the mainstay of the house because she is not always considered to her right value. I will not talk about this woman who organizes tuperware meetings to fill her life and who spends her  time wallowed on the sofa watching soap-operas such as &#8220;the young and the restless&#8221;, the one  that takes her husband for a cash drawer or the  one that spends her time backbiting about others because she thinks she is perfect but I am talking about this woman of action who conciliates love,  the couple, children, her job and keeping the house, this woman who spends her time pleasing everyone and never thinks of herself, this woman who forgets about marital escapades and suffers in silence.<br />
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A Woman is  much more valiant than a man in general, she is capable of feats for her house but there is a point of no return. Once passed, there&#8217;s nothing more to do. How many men have boasted in front of their friends around a glass in a pub, being confident  about the  intentions and reactions of their wives? How many have moved heaven and earth to try and get their wives back once gone ? A woman needs to be reassured, to be cajoled, she needs affection and complicity. They are not only   wipe-buttocks, dustpans  and evenless prostitutes, it is not always a geographic detail.</p>
<p>You may say I&#8217;m going too far, but when a couple is not going on well, it is at the expense of sex. At this level It may be better to think of something different than playing the kleenex and turn on one&#8217;s side,  sensitivity still exists even after 10 years of marriage. A woman has some expectations, sex is not exempt from the regulations. It&#8217;s not only a matter of dipping the biscuit, but it may be necessary to heat the teapot before dipping. Do you think taht a woman who, when she wakes up  in the morning, takes care of the house, children, go to work, closes late in the evening wants a companion who thinks only of wiping his nose instead a moment of tender complicity? It is not surprising that most women simulate and again, they do so in order not to hurt you in your manhood, yet their honor! Imagine gentlemen, if your wife asked you to be sodomised, I am convinced that most of you would refuse because you have your pride, but then why do you have to impose it to your companion? Again, she does it  for you, what do you do for her in return? We can not be happy in a couple if one thinks only about himself. Life in a couple needs two people, it becomes three if one doesn&#8217;t respect the other. In addition, I haven&#8217;t  said a word about a developed libido which prevents from thinking normally. Again, there would be somethings to say…</p>
<p>We too often forget that she is before all an insurance for the family. How many people are upset because their wife is absent? How many women think first and foremost of their small family before thinking about themselves ?<br />
She sacrifices so that everyone is happy and she closes the eyes  on a lot of things then I think a minimum of respect is imperative and that from time to time, try to think a little bit about her instead of thinking about yourself.<br />
That is nice to buy a bouquet of flowers for Valentine&#8217;s day, but it would be a good thing inyou could be more attentive and not only once a year. When you give her a present, give her something for herself and not for the house like a fryer or a vacuum cleaner, don&#8217;t you ? Remember that she is the engine of your family and that if it is not well oiled, it breaks.  Years make no excuse on the contrary.</p>
<p>I would like to digress for women who suffer from physical and psychological pressure. A marriage confers no right on the partner and even less under various pressures. You chose your partner under the free will, that is to say with their consent and to go on with your marrital life, you should continue to implement the free will. It is nothing more and nothing less than a form of respect and it becomes nothing but domination  if you do not take it into consideration. A submissive woman will rebel at a time or another, it is only a matter of time, then if it is the idea that you have about  marriage, it&#8217;s just a macho behaviour and you don&#8217;t even deserve that she wahes your pants ! However, you must not come crying the day  your wife goes away taking the furniture and most importantly, you should not ask for the reason why ! If she hides things from you, ask yourself  the question why? We do not do anything without any reason, there is always an explanation to a problem.</p>
<p>If your wife refuses herself to you, it is not always because of a periodical problem or of her mood, ask yourself the question why ? Even at that level it is not always the fault of others&#8230;Calling yourself into the question from time to time would be beneficial. If you the men consider women as objects, what do you expect in return ? That they are loving and obedient ? If you find one, keep her well, because you&#8217;re not going to find a second one ! In most cases, and it is unfortunate that the only advantage you have is the financial aspect which is one reason why she is still with you if not divorce would explode.</p>
<p>MADAME, if you recognized yourself in the text, I bow before your fortitude and hope you continue to make us dream with your presence and your know-how. I would like to apologize for all those men who see in you nothing but an object of lust and desire and not as a flower to grow.</p>
<p>Many men may not appreciate the content of this text for a good reason, I touch a subject where they believe to be gods, but there are men who are passionate, caring and deserve special attention unlike others who have a directed and focused  blood circulation.</p>
<p>People are looking at any price for a miracle in their daily lives while sometimes, it is right next to them because a woman who suffers in silence in spite of everything,  keeps on smiling to save the face for years, it is a miracle and a beautiful lesson of humility!</p>
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		<title>Prostitution and paedophilia</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 05:48:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I have already  pointed out in an earlier text on women, prostitution is not just a geographical detail, it is a matter of morals and under some conditions, it is even slavery since it is a prostitution of the soul. Anyway, released or deliberate act, subject or not subject to, forced or not, the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=fter.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3196454&amp;post=27&amp;subd=fter&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I ha<img style="float:left;margin:5px;" src="http://www.fter.fr/images/pedo.jpg" alt="" width="118" height="87" align="right" />ve already  pointed out in an earlier text on women, prostitution is not just a geographical detail, it is a matter of morals and under some conditions, it is even slavery since it is a prostitution of the soul. Anyway, released or deliberate act, subject or not subject to,  forced or not, the soul is dirty and this is the most serious because once soiled, she pays for it to the end of her life because there is always something or someone to remind her. In terms of trauma, it&#8217;s a horror.<br />
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What  about these people who pretend to have a certain social ease and who are true perverse in private, those who have no qualms about going around the world to indulge in their sexual impulses on young children? What about those honourable people who prefer to destroy the lives of children rather than to go and see a specialized doctor  because they have a real problem? What about these perverts who are mentally ill and who refuse to see reality in the face? Nothing! Without awareness, there&#8217;s nothing to do. Moreover, they create a kind of omerta in their entourage to have their mind in peace. As usual, it is not their fault because they don&#8217;t feel involved. You pass the sponge until the next time and in the meantime the wheel turns !</p>
<p>I would like to place special emphasis on women considered by their husbands as prostitutes, we never speak about it and yet it exists. It starts from of a humiliating attitude, up to calls in the house through friends who make use of her ! Yes, it does exist! Hard to believe, isn&#8217;t it? Some husbands see their wives as objects, it is a step up to prostitution. There is not much to say about this kind of character except that the day they have to sold accounts with their consciousness, they will certainly not be as proud! It is always easier to impose one&#8217;s will on weaker than oneself, especially when we take the love in the couple as a pretext.</p>
<p>As for these prostitution networks coming from abroad, young girls seeking an Eldorado and have found a lot of pimps. Again, they take advantage of the innocence and dreams of young children to make them live a torture, kidnapping, violence, submission, humiliation, substitution of  papers and the list goes on. All these people who profit from prostitution for personal purposes do not even deserve the human status. The laws are not strict enough for those people who break lives with the sole concern of enrichment, a disgrace to our  so called  civilized society. Some will tell me that, if there is an offer it is because there is a demand, I will reply that if there are doctors, it is not for nothing, but as we touch the subject of manhood , we can already give up. To get someone to confess that he is a sexual falls ill is a quest, but if there are impulses, it is that there is a psychological disorder, don&#8217;t you believe?<br />
When it comes to prostitution, we can not help thinking about paedophilia. We talk about it, we denounce it, but in deeds, where are we ? From  the injured woman who seeks the destruction of her husband at all costs by bringing false charges, the step-daughter who can not stand her stepfather, who accuses him of touching , to  true crimes, there is a real mess. As always, the baseness of spirit is omnipresent, how to be sure of an information that is based on revenge? True interviews with false victims  and during that time, the real victims suffer. Again, this is not normal, but as people continue to look at their navel, they will not do anything else. They may make an effort if there is something to take or to give themselves good conscience. We must also say something about the trauma suffered that can be disabling in some situations. The traces are not always visible, and they are much more rooted in the brain than on the body. We must use tact to avoid reopening the wounds</p>
<p>This is a very serious injure to liberty and we can&#8217;t let go this kind of thing! This is not stealing a car for a bank robbery,  is the robbing of a soul to steal dreams and hopes. We never think about the victim&#8217;s family, struck down by the situation, a child who lives only by his shadow. One child soiled, it is a minimum of three victims. Who cares because it does not fall within the statistical and profits! When are we going to open our eyes? It is not all to denounce everything at random but it may be necessary for the conciousness to arise. Agreeing with what is said will never move things forward, are you aware of it?</p>
<p>I can not admit that you find this kind of character in the street ready to turn an innocent life into hell. A question of conscience arises, put off a character known to the services of police for acts of paedophilia or protect future victims? Another issue that should not even arise if everyone had enough guts to take his responsibility. How is it that such perverse can recur? How is it that such acts could be protected under the pretext of notoriety? The answer, we all have it,  but unfortunately the courage and deeds do not follow because economic and social stakes are being protected !</p>
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		<title>The matrix</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 07:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether we want it or not, we are indeed part of a matrix that is designed to keep us in fear and ignorance to manipulate us better. We are constantly bombarded by messages in this sense, both by the media and by our mentors or by small groups that describe themselves as &#8220;native knowledge&#8221; ! [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=fter.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3196454&amp;post=6&amp;subd=fter&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Whether we want it or not, we are indeed part of a matrix that is designed to keep us in fear and ignorance to manipulate us better. We are constantly bombarded by messages in this sense, both by the media and by our mentors or by small groups that describe themselves as &#8220;native knowledge&#8221; !</p>
<p>War of this, sickness of that, catastrophies and  apocalyptic disasters of all kinds, everything is good for us to be  maintained in  an atmosphere of torpor and for us to feel exclusive and that ultimately we are not not that bad. We are part of this matrix whose goal is to keep us in a false comfort to stop us from evoluting  one way or another, and as a consequence, from having  access to the real meaning of life. For many, it sums up to a small family to ensure a semblance of happyness, to a job to feel useful, formatted education  to avoid excesses and some hobbies to pass the time without  really asking   questions ( Football is a good example), Rome had understood the need to entertain the plèbe by organizing  gladiators tournaments to contain the crowd.<br />
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You totally have the right to believe this, as you may think these are utopic words. I will not try  in any way to convince you because this is not my goal and some others persist in doing it better than me, it&#8217;s up to you to judge!</p>
<p>Going back to the matrix, we are conditioned in a way to ensure that we are part and parcel of it (education, schooling, religion, ect…) And that by  entering into this mould, we shape ourselves. If this was not the case, Why  is it that we all live in the same way, with the only difference of social classes and religions. If you meet somebody who lives in the street, you catalog him as a marginal   without even knowing his history and as a result, to exclude him from the matrix. Consider the case of someone who lives in a caravan or who has no car, it is exactly the same thing, he is not part of the standard because he does not have an apartment or a vehicle. I do not think that someone who lives on the margins of society is different from his neighbors and that   judging him as such  can be summed up as  not to accept his differences and not to respect his ideas. You have to be careful because we call into question the very basic laws of life. What difference can it wake  that one  lives as he wants as long as he respects the people in his environment and doesn&#8217;t hurt anyone? If we take a closer look, it is because these people think differently and that, in some way, it&#8217;s scaring  because they deviate from the standard and that there is no way to control them. A striking example in history, the Indians have been driven from their land to finally park them into reserves for getting a  total control and always in the background canvas, the domination of man by man!.</p>
<p>Let me take another example,   that of those who deny in block when we refer to the subject of paranormal or spirituality. Inside the mind of most people, the image of spirituality is a person in the lotus position, who speaks about  chakras chanting &#8220;ahumm, ahumm&#8221; and the stereotype  of paranormal  is &#8221; they&#8217;re all charlatans.&#8221; Very simple and very reducing but I admit that sometimes I can not say they are wrong as many enrich on the misery of others in granting themselves gifts  but mainly using psychology, but I would like to say that it is not because there is a rotten egg in a basket that the basket is rotten. Once more, we are talking about the very basic laws of life and this one is called tolerance. Even if you don&#8217;t believe in it, we must at least let the benefit of the doubt, as I explained in a previous text, if we can not prove that we move forward in this sense, you can also not prove us the  contrary! We don&#8217;t have enough of data at this time, and nobody can deny. It&#8217;s as if we were at the bottom of a building discussing of what is happening at the 10th floor while we&#8217;ve never put our feet there ! Of course, at this level there, all excesses are possible but for how long?</p>
<p>I raised this point because spirituality is part of our evolution and that the access to the various plans   excludes us from the matrix directly and indirectly. It can be frightfull at first but yet it is truly real. Some phenomenoms in this direction have been seen and written throughout the world and in history, I doubt much that it is the effect of a few fanciful people because many facts are converging and it is no coincidence. Our DNA shows us that we are a genetic code, and that every day, we record our history in our genes. We have over 90% of trash DNA, why  is it that we have only 2 DNA bits ? If you have the answer to this question,  quickly let it be known because some will need it to enrich themselves.</p>
<p>The conclusion of my text can be summarized in a few words: fear and ignorance generate power and influence. Being part of the matrix conditions us to stay in the mold. Try to have an outside view of what you live every day and you will understand what I mean.</p>
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		<title>Human relations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 00:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, almost nobody respects his neighbour and we need some awareness so that people realize that something is happening. For example, when you enter a so called trading center, how many people greet you with a smile? When you walk in the street and that someone hustles you, how many turn to apologize? If human [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=fter.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3196454&amp;post=26&amp;subd=fter&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;margin:5px;" src="http://www.fter.fr/images/couple.jpg" alt="" width="107" height="87" align="left" />Today, almost nobody respects his neighbour and we need some awareness so that people realize that something is happening. For example, when you enter a so called trading center, how many people greet you  with a smile? When you walk in the street and that someone hustles  you, how many turn to apologize?</p>
<p>If human relationships are so difficult today it is because we don&#8217;t  all have the same priorities and the same desires. Rare are the old couples who are in harmony because habit and lassitude have made their relations a latent situation that arranges everybody sometimes. The human being is afraid of commitment, afraid of making decisions, it is not new, because since the dawn of time, humans are afraid of the unknown, but by creating this fear, you become negative and it&#8217;s not like this that you can move forward. The negative energy that you loosen influence your life and not just a few.<br />
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We are surrounded by people who have negative thoughts. How do you want to move forward in these conditions? Running away from  the unsatisfied is a solution but it is good sometimes to set the record straight , because if you don&#8217;t, who will do that for you? Negative is everywhere but there is worse than the negative, which is the sustitution, make people believe that we are, that we can appear to satisfy an ego or a libido while we are quite different. We must ask the question &#8220;what are the motivations that drive a particular person to pretend to be what he or she is not? &#8220;And at different degrees leaving sometimes painful traces in passing by . I have an example firmly rooted in the mores, it is the extra marital relations , how many men or women are telling the truth about their family circumstances to their spouse of one night or one moment ? How many couples live by ménage à trois, sometimes more, without anybody being aware of it? If everybody would take their responsibilities at that level, there would certainly be less Tears! People prefer to live in a lie because all the truths are not good to be told, but what about your conscience? Because IT, doesn&#8217;t lie, does not betray and constantly remind you what you are. It is easy to build plans on the comet when it is based on the wind, but what about your evolution if it is also based on the wind?</p>
<p>I will not make myself the Devil&#8217;s Advocate, but that I would like you to get awared that , if you want to play a role that does not belong to you, you are free to do it because it concerns only you, but as long as you involve someone else, you are playing a dangerous game, because you may not be able to master the emotions of the people you took as a target without their knowledge, most of the time. In the end, you&#8217;ll say that this is not your problem, but there is one thing people do not know most of the time, it is the universal law which has the ethics &#8220;What goes around  comes around&#8221; and I can assure you of one thing is that it is worse than your conscience because it doesn&#8217;t forget anything and that at some point or another, you will pay for your misdeeds! Now, I am not here to make you afraid, nor to preach to you, but to try to analyze your life with your positive and negative situations compared to the universal law and try to make a synthesis out of it, will the result  be negative, positive or mixed? If people were happy, it would be known on one hand and there would be far less masquerades and on the other hand, there would certainly be less jealousy that goes hand in hand with hypocrisy.</p>
<p>I leave it to you to think about all this and draw some conclusion, which I hope you will make you advance.</p>
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		<title>Economy and démocrassie</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 00:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we see that the money that governs our world comes from the sale of arms, drugs and speculation on honest people, we should not even ask the question why this world is rotten. On the one hand, people who are dying of hunger and on the other one people who die from diabetes and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=fter.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3196454&amp;post=25&amp;subd=fter&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;margin:5px;" src="http://www.fter.fr/images/petrole.jpg" alt="" width="145" height="105" align="right" />When we see that the money that governs our world comes from the sale of arms, drugs and speculation on honest people, we should not even ask the question  why this world is rotten. On the one hand, people who are dying of hunger and on the other one people who die from diabetes and cholesterol.<br />
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<p>The worst is that we deliberately destroy some food to meet quotas and if the idea comes for producers to give out the excess, they get bombarded by taxes to dissuade them. I saw it with a farmer who preferred to poor to  the sewer 1200 liters of milk rather than to give it to a food bank. Don&#8217;t you think that there is a real problem of substance? The perverse side of this situation is the resale of these products, which were donated at the base, manufacturers that give their employees products from the manufacture and the same employees who  resell them. When the direction noticed it deletes everything, which means, as usual, for a few morons, everybody has to bear the blame! Respect and civility are still out of reach and  I don&#8217;t even talk about awareness.</p>
<p>Coming back to the original theme, what is more serious is that money changes attitudes because people think they will be able to exist because they have a beautiful house or a nice car, again you are under an illusion because what you are going to attract is nothing but a reflection of your situation, superficial and in addition to that you are going to attract all mean mindedness because you create in the first place jealousy. A very good example, the winners of the lottery, how many have been taxed by friends of a day? How many have not been affected psychologically? How many are still rich, 5 years after winning?</p>
<p>The illusion that gives this feeling to exist! Do you really need money to prove the love you have for your children? If this is really your vision of things then it does not surprise me that we are in a deep mess today! Bombing your children with very expensive gifts for Christmas will never replace a loving and accomplice presence which is crucial to their balance!</p>
<p>Consider the case of fossil fuels, large companies bribe corrupt diplomats to exploit such and such a wealth in such and such a  country, this is how it works even if I don&#8217;t put the forms. In addition, they are very powerful and direct everything, it is not far from the excellent Mad Max even if it makes one  smile for the moment. As for us, quiet, we look at it in the newspapers or on TV, and then we issue a critical opinion. The irony of fate is that we have alternative energies and that we would just have to put a structure in place there is a structure to put in place to palliate  but we touch the nerve of the war, that means money . Not quite profitable for the moment then we suffer the whims of OPEC and then it takes its course, and we don&#8217;t care because we are not really concerned aren&#8217;t we ?  and then it is  just the price that  rises but it is not serious, isn&#8217;t it? While this, the suppository takes its effects, don&#8217;t  you feel too much pain ?</p>
<p>We live in a world obsessed by money, it is not new and everyone knows it, but what is less well known is that about 300 families hold the reins in addition to the grant that trembles when the wind  blows a little harder. Everyone is dependent on this necessary evil today not counting what can result. Even the most noble sentiments are being bartered, a deplorable exemple, is the sale of children, animals, prostitution, etc…</p>
<p>It is far from a model of virtue, don&#8217;t you think ?</p>
<p>I prefer to live watching aeolian turbines which distort the landscape rather than being polluted by these fossil fuels for the day when I will no longer breathe, I will not even be able to look at the countryside !<!--more--></p>
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